{"id":3096,"date":"2022-04-10T16:53:23","date_gmt":"2022-04-10T13:53:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/?p=3096"},"modified":"2022-04-10T16:58:29","modified_gmt":"2022-04-10T13:58:29","slug":"kendi-kendini-gerceklestiren-kehanet-etkisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/kendi-kendini-gerceklestiren-kehanet-etkisi\/","title":{"rendered":"Kendi Kendini Ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren Kehanet Etkisi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Merhaba sevgili inekle ailesi! Bug\u00fcn sizlere hepimizin sahip oldu\u011fu ancak bir\u00e7o\u011fumuzun bilmedi\u011fi sihirli bir g\u00fc\u00e7ten bahsedece\u011fim. Kendi kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren kehanetten!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hepimizin hayatlar\u0131m\u0131zla ilgili baz\u0131 tahminleri vard\u0131r. Peki, bu tahminlerimiz ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyor mu? \u00d6rne\u011fin, bir s\u0131navdan ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ger\u00e7ekten de ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oluyor musunuz? Ya da g\u00fcne ba\u015flarken bug\u00fcn kesin k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015feyler olacak dedi\u011finizde o g\u00fcn k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015feyler oluyor mu?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/6237990\/pexels-photo-6237990.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;dpr=1&amp;w=500\" alt=\"a\u00e7\u0131k, akademik, ak\u0131ll\u0131 i\u00e7eren \u00dccretsiz stok foto\u011fraf\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Benim cevab\u0131m her iki soru i\u00e7inde kesinlikle evet. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne zaman ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsem ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oluyorum. Ya da g\u00fcne k\u00f6t\u00fc bir ruh hali ile ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde mutlaka beni \u00fczecek bir olay ya\u015f\u0131yorum. Ne? Yoksa ben bir k\u00e2hin miyim?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/image.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/image.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3097\" width=\"509\" height=\"339\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/image.png 1000w, https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/image-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/image-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/image-600x400.png 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 509px) 100vw, 509px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evet, kahinim. \ud83d\ude0a \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc beklentilerimle davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 \u015fekillendirerek olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u015feye o kadar inan\u0131yorum ki sonunda bekledi\u011fim \u015feyler ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015fte, tam olarak kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren kehanet dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey bu. \u0130lk ba\u015fta bir olay olmadan \u00f6nce bununla ilgili bir fikre inan\u0131yoruz. Bu inan\u00e7 da eylemlerimizi etkiliyor ve daha sonra bu inan\u00e7lar\u0131 yans\u0131tacak \u015fekilde davranarak kehanetin ge\u00e7ekle\u015fmesine neden oluyoruz. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/7063750\/pexels-photo-7063750.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;dpr=1&amp;w=500\" alt=\"a\u00e7\u0131k, adam, ah\u015fap i\u00e7eren \u00dccretsiz stok foto\u011fraf\" width=\"512\" height=\"331\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu kehanetin iki farkl\u0131 t\u00fcr\u00fc var. Gelin \u00f6rnekler e\u015fli\u011finde bu iki t\u00fcr\u00fc inceleyelim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birincisi kendi kendimize empoze etti\u011fimiz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler. Yani burada ba\u015frol kendimiziz. Beklentilerimiz, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n nedeni oluyor. Bu t\u00fcre verebilece\u011fimiz en g\u00fczel \u00f6rnek Placebo Etkisi. Bu etkiyi kaynaklar, ki\u015finin hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kan\u0131tlanm\u0131\u015f tedavi edici bir etkisi olmamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen bir ilac\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kendisini iyile\u015ftirebilece\u011fi alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n olu\u015fmas\u0131 \u015feklinde tan\u0131ml\u0131yorlar. Yani hastalar ilac\u0131 ald\u0131klar\u0131nda iyile\u015feceklerine inand\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in iyi hissetmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yorlar. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsenize, kendi kendimizi iyile\u015ftirebiliyoruz! Sadece inanarak&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/5062811\/pexels-photo-5062811.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;dpr=1&amp;w=500\" alt=\"Asyal\u0131 K\u0131z \u00e7ene Eliyle Satran\u00e7 Oynuyor\" width=\"520\" height=\"346\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu kehanetin di\u011fer bir t\u00fcr\u00fc ise ba\u015fkalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan dayat\u0131lan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerdir. K\u0131saca, \u00e7evremizdeki insanlar\u0131n beklentilerinin eylemlerimizi etkilemesi diyebiliriz. Bunun ilgili Joseph Murphy\u2019nin \u2018\u2019Bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131n G\u00fcc\u00fc\u2019\u2019 adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda okudu\u011fum bir hik\u00e2yeden bahsetmek istiyorum. Bir adam gelece\u011fi \u00f6\u011frenmek amac\u0131yla bir falc\u0131ya gidiyor ve falc\u0131 adama \u00f6lece\u011fi tarihi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Adam bunu o kadar ciddiye al\u0131yor ki ailesine bunu anlat\u0131p vasiyetini haz\u0131rlamaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Bu fikre \u00e7ok inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in beyni falc\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6yledi\u011fi tarihte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 durdurarak \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne neden oluyor. Yani adam kendi kendini \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Sadece inanarak..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/914931\/pexels-photo-914931.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;dpr=1&amp;w=500\" alt=\"Laptop \u00f6n\u00fcnde Smartphone Tutan Beyaz Ti\u015f\u00f6rt Kad\u0131nda\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7ok duydu\u011fumuz \u201cBir \u015feyi k\u0131rk kere dersen olur!\u201d, \u201cSak\u0131nan g\u00f6ze \u00e7\u00f6p batarm\u0131\u015f.\u201d gibi deyimlerin asl\u0131nda bize anlatmak istedi\u011fi \u00e7ok \u015fey varm\u0131\u015f, de\u011fil mi? \ud83d\ude0a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bug\u00fcnden itibaren ya\u015famak istemedi\u011fimiz durumlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi b\u0131rak\u0131p hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 olumlu y\u00f6nde etkileyecek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere yelken a\u00e7al\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyler bizlere motivasyon verir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7evremizdeki her \u015fey bizim y\u00fckledi\u011fimiz anlamlarla hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki yerini al\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir insan\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri olu\u015fturur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/19679\/pexels-photo.jpg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;dpr=1&amp;w=500\" alt=\"Kaz\u0131kl\u0131 Kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k Renkli Boyama Kalemi Lot\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBir \u015feyin imk\u00e2ns\u0131z oldu\u011funa inan\u0131rsan\u0131z, akl\u0131n\u0131z bunun neden imk\u00e2ns\u0131z oldu\u011funu size ispatlamak \u00fczere \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flar. Ama bir \u015feyi yapabilece\u011finize inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, ger\u00e7ekten inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, akl\u0131n\u0131z yapmak \u00fczere \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler bulma konusunda size yard\u0131m etmek i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flar.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/68562\/pexels-photo-68562.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;dpr=1&amp;w=500\" alt=\"Beyaz Ka\u011f\u0131t \u00fczerine Siyah Kalem\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">David J. Schwartz\u2019in bu s\u00f6zleri ile kendi kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren kehaneti \u00f6zetlemi\u015f olal\u0131m.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Umar\u0131m bug\u00fcnden itibaren sahip oldu\u011fumuz bu sihirli g\u00fcc\u00fcn fark\u0131na var\u0131r\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sadece inanarak bile hayat\u0131m\u0131zda b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fiklikler yaratabiliriz. \ud83d\ude0a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beyza \u00d6zcan<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.inekle.com\/content\/profile-image\/b96c5736-1d0c-47be-90c4-87f7db05e953.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">10.04.2022<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Merhaba sevgili inekle ailesi! Bug\u00fcn sizlere hepimizin sahip oldu\u011fu ancak bir\u00e7o\u011fumuzun bilmedi\u011fi sihirli bir g\u00fc\u00e7ten bahsedece\u011fim. Kendi kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren kehanetten! Hepimizin hayatlar\u0131m\u0131zla\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3098,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[688,7,1113,3,690,102,88,689],"tags":[708,22,1281,1049,1279,1276,1277,1275,711,163,49,154,1280,1274,686,70,151,1282,685],"class_list":["post-3096","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mys","category-sinavlar","category-sks","category-tavsiyeler","category-tyt","category-vay-canina","category-veliler-icin","category-yks","tag-ayt","tag-canli-ders","tag-danisma","tag-egitim","tag-etkisi","tag-gerceeklestiren","tag-kehanet","tag-kendini","tag-lgs","tag-lys-tavsiyeleri","tag-online-dershane","tag-online-ozel-ders","tag-psikolojik","tag-psikolojisinde","tag-tyt","tag-universite-tercih","tag-universiteliden-ozel-ders","tag-ve-rehberlik","tag-yks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3096","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3096"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3096\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3098"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3096"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3096"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3096"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}