{"id":2358,"date":"2017-04-05T13:59:46","date_gmt":"2017-04-05T10:59:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/?p=2358"},"modified":"2026-08-25T20:08:27","modified_gmt":"2026-08-25T17:08:27","slug":"her-seyi-erteliyorum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/her-seyi-erteliyorum\/","title":{"rendered":"Her \u015eeyi Erteliyorum!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>&#8220;Biraz daha zamana ihtiyac\u0131m var&#8221;<\/em> c\u00fcmlesini \u00e7ok s\u0131k kuranlardan m\u0131s\u0131n sen de? Ufak tefek \u015feyleri bile s\u00fcrekli erteleyip son dakikada yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsan ve s\u00fcrekli zamandan \u015fikayet ediyorsan bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 ertelemeden bir an \u00f6nce okuman\u0131 tavsiye ediyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u015feyleri erteleme konusuyla ba\u015flayal\u0131m. Asl\u0131nda erteledi\u011fimiz sorumluluklar\u0131m\u0131z biz fark\u0131nda olmadan kendi i\u00e7inde gruplan\u0131yorlar;<strong> \u00f6nemli sorumluluklar<\/strong> ve<strong> \u00f6nemsiz sorumluluklar<\/strong> olmak \u00fczere. E\u011fer erteledi\u011fimiz sorumluluk hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 devam ettirmemize engel oluyorsa\u00a0buna direk \u00f6nemli s\u0131fat\u0131n\u0131 ekleyebiliyoruz. Mesela \u00fct\u00fc yapmay\u0131 ertelemek \u00f6nemsizlere, ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ertelemekse \u00f6nemlilere \u00f6rnek verilebilir.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Ben tembelim. Ne yaparsam yapay\u0131m bu erteleme olay\u0131 benim i\u00e7in bir huya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.&#8221;<\/em> diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan k\u00f6t\u00fc bir haberim var sana. Maalesef <strong>ertelemenin nedeni tembellik de\u011fil<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Tembel olmak hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmamakla alakal\u0131 bir kavram. Ama sen ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman gerekirken kitap okuyorsan, geziyorsan hatta televizyon izliyorsan bu senin bir \u015fey yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yani tembel oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stermez. <strong>Bu senin ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan bilin\u00e7li bir \u015fekilde ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve enerjini ba\u015fka bir alana bo\u015faltmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>O zaman \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ertelemene neden olan \u015fey ne?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olma korkusu ve performans kayg\u0131s\u0131.<\/strong> E\u011fer ger\u00e7ekten kazanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyorsan, o s\u0131navdan y\u00fcksek puanlar alaca\u011f\u0131na inanm\u0131yorsan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmazs\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc e\u011fer \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n halde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck bir puan gelirse <em>&#8220;ben o kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m yapamad\u0131m. San\u0131r\u0131m sorun bende.&#8221;<\/em> demekten korkars\u0131n. Hep son dakikaya b\u0131rak\u0131r ve son aylarda son g\u00fcnlerde b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fcnle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flars\u0131n. \u0130stemedi\u011fin bir puan gelse bile, <em>&#8220;ben son ay \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak bu puan\u0131 ald\u0131m en ba\u015ftan b\u00f6yle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsam derece yapard\u0131m&#8221;<\/em> diye kaz\u0131rs\u0131n ak\u0131llara. <strong>\u00c7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde kazanamayanlar\u0131n hakarete u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, zekas\u0131n\u0131n sorguland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan, \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n halde kazanamamaktan korkars\u0131n ve sonunda da \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmazs\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Evet bu bir performans s\u0131nav\u0131 ve sen de milyonlarca ki\u015finin \u00f6n\u00fcnde sahne al\u0131yorsun. Gayet anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r bir kayg\u0131 bu. Ama ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n diyeceklerinden korktu\u011fun, kendi ba\u015far\u0131nla y\u00fczle\u015fmedi\u011fin s\u00fcrece son dakikalarla ya\u015famaya devam edeceksin hayat\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Peki erteleme olay\u0131ndan kurtulmak i\u00e7in ne yapacaks\u0131n?<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk \u00f6nce fark edeceksin. Neyi erteledi\u011fini, niye erteledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcneceksin. \u00dczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca erteledi\u011fin \u015feyleri bilin\u00e7li olarak ve belirli nedenler y\u00fcz\u00fcnden erteledi\u011fini fark edeceksin zaten.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130kinci olaraksa yapaca\u011f\u0131n \u015feyleri somutla\u015ft\u0131racaks\u0131n. <strong>Yar\u0131n fizik \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131m demek yetmiyor mesela. Yar\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131n fizik dersini hangi kitaptan \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n, hangi konuyu \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n, ne kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra ka\u00e7 soru \u00e7\u00f6zeceksin?<\/strong> Bu sorular\u0131n hepsini <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">en az bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nceden<\/span> belirlemi\u015f olmal\u0131s\u0131n. <strong>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc beyin belirsizlikleri sevmez. Belirsizli\u011fin oldu\u011fu yerde tedirgin olur ve odaklanamaz<\/strong>. Sen de bu tedirginli\u011fi ya\u015famamak i\u00e7in s\u00fcrekli ertelemek zorunda kal\u0131rs\u0131n yapaca\u011f\u0131n \u015feyleri.<\/p>\n<p>Senden ve senin hayallerinden daha \u00f6nemli bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilerek \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. <strong>Hayaller alarm de\u011fildir, ertelenmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil pe\u015finden ko\u015fmak i\u00e7in kurulurlar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H. Ali<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Biraz daha zamana ihtiyac\u0131m var&#8221; c\u00fcmlesini \u00e7ok s\u0131k kuranlardan m\u0131s\u0131n sen de? Ufak tefek \u015feyleri bile s\u00fcrekli erteleyip son dakikada yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsan\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2361,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_inekle_views":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[708,201,674,132,675,673,676,711,686,685],"class_list":["post-2358","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sinavlar","tag-ayt","tag-cocugum-ders-calismak-istemiyor","tag-ders-calismak-istemiyorum","tag-ders-calismak-istiyorum-ama-calisamiyorum","tag-ders-calismayi-erteleme","tag-erteleme-hastaligi","tag-islerinizi-ertelemekten-kurtulmanin-yollari","tag-lgs","tag-tyt","tag-yks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2358","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2358"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2358\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11350,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2358\/revisions\/11350"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2361"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2358"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2358"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.inekle.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2358"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}